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Restoring a broken relationship is the most difficult topic to cover! Few paragraphs talking about this is not enough so I will have a try with several continuing blogs, this post as the 1st segment.

It is very spontaneous for us to hurt someone, intentionally or unintentionally, and it is normal to feel very bad when someone offends us. Much more, we LOVE to keep that hurt until it becomes hatred which eventually transforms us to be a very bitter person...although we clearly know how awfully bad it is to avenged the offenses done to us, we continue to do so because it is our human nature.

My recent blog says ‘nurture your existing relationship because it is hard to regain a broken relationship.’ But when the relationship is already broken I have mentioned in my introductory blog on relationship: ‘It is godly to forgive those who hurt you and to ask for forgiveness to those whom you’ve hurt!’

We all know it is very easy to say ‘forgive and ask for forgiveness’ but it is an insurmountable task to do!

Are you hurting today? Have you hurt someone? Are you keeping grudges and bitter? Do you struggle forgiving? Are you wrestling with your feeling on asking for forgiveness? Would you like to get even for those emotional stubbing pains thrusted on you? I am praying for you because I know how it feels, it is my struggle too. We need God’s help specially this Holiday Season – a season of supposedly FORGIVENESS!

In my next blog about ‘Relationship’ I will invite you to survey with me what the Word of God says about the most difficult thing to do in life – forgiving those who offended us!